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Ready for more?

It’s time to meet your next self.

Welcome to Dadolescence

The life stage where gay & queer men trade autopilot for adventure. Here’s what it looks like.

Less grind, more glitter.

Success looks good on you, but you’re exhausted. You’re dreaming of an oceanside sabbatical, a cabin in the woods, or a fresh start—and ready to make it happen.

My life, my choices.

You’ve played life a little safe—perhaps for good reason. Now you’re curious to see what happens when you take bigger risks, make bolder choices, and queer the rules a bit.

You’ve been a lovely audience.

You’ve had your flowers for a role that once fit perfectly. Now it’s time for a final bow and to try something new—even if it scares you a little (or a lot).

Future me is watching

Life has been an amazing ride, and I’m not done yet. I’m ready to wow future me with the joy, meaning, and unapologetic queer sparkle I’m about to create.

Dadolescence isn’t a problem to fix.

It’s a doorway to your next chapter, and you don’t have to navigate it alone.

I’m Peter, Your Dadolescence Guide

You’ve built a life you can be proud of, and yet you feel it: the quiet nudge, the spark, the itch that whispers: there’s more!

I know that feeling intimately. I’ve navigated transitions that stretched me: ending relationships that no longer fit, redesigning my career, leaving behind the 9-to-5, even letting go of roles and identities that felt like they defined me.

But when I sought support, I kept finding models that weren’t made for us. That’s why I’ve created this space for gay & queer men ready to step into what’s next.

I invite you to join this community of adventurers. Here we celebrate who we are and playfully bring our dreams to life.

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Services

  • 1-1 Workshop

    This isn’t your typical vision board session. It’s a deep-dive, joy-filled workshop where we chart your next chapter, one that’s more spacious, more honest, and a lot more you.

    Through guided reflection and creative coaching, you’ll connect the dots between where you’ve been and where you’re ready to go. Expect aha moments, laughter, and a plan that feels as alive as you are.

  • Concierge Coaching experience

    This is high-touch, bespoke coaching for those ready to reclaim energy, spark, and momentum in their lives. Together, we’ll map out your next chapter, uncover what’s ready to change, and design bold, actionable steps — all with curiosity, clarity, and a touch of mischief.

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Great Bear Client Testmonials

  • The Magic of Rest & Connection

    “Peter partnered with me to embody the queer magic of rest & connection. I no longer dwell in overwhelm & I prioritize my well being as an act of liberation. Our work together helped my inner weirdo flourish. “

  • The Magic of Generative Conflict

    “Peter accompanied me as I cultivated the queer magic of generative conflict. I used to see winners and losers; now I see conflict as a path to new possibilities and better relationships. I now embody courageous & curious, not fearful & defensive.”

  • The Magic of Self-Definition

    “I’ve been out at work for years, but I often felt silenced and erased. Peter guided me as I leaned into the queer magic of self-definition. I abandoned a professional identity that no longer served me and gave myself permission to experiment and grow.”

  • The Magic of Confidence

    “I recently stepped into a role of greater authority at work. Peter supported me as I worked to embody the queer magic of confidence. I no longer question what I have to offer, I use my voice with confidence, and I experience joy in the role I worked so hard to obtain.”

  • The Magic of Multiple Perspectives

    “Peter helped me cultivate the queer magic of multiple perspectives: seeing my intentions and my impact at the same time. I became more empathetic, cultivated more joyful relationships, and learned to co-create with others what we can’t imagine on our own.”